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While empowering women we need to make sure that our men are empowered too . Don’t they need to be self- dependent and self-reliant as well ?                                                                    -Anonymous  Are we telling our boys to do housework and that it is okay to cry . Or we taunt them “ Are you a girl “ when they cry ?? . We need  to have people talking about empowering women but we also , more importantly , need people to talk about other side i.e. how can we raise boys to be more sensitive and girls to be more powerful . Why do kids always ask for food only from the mother . Isn’t father capable of giving food ? They don’t associate food or nurturing with father , which is quite sad . When it comes to money we all go to the father because we don’t and neither our culture associates wome...

FEAR OF REJECTION

 " The greatest trap in our life is not success , popularity  or power , but self rejection " .                      _ Henri Nouwen  Life is about going for certain things . And when  we do , rejection is a possibility . Rejection means a lot of things to a lot  of people . Rejection  doesn't  have to be  big  such as being  rejected  from  a job ,  or not getting a seat in your favorite  college . It can be as simple as no one offering you a seat , or people  trying to avoid you , or nobody likes to have a conversation  with you .          I struggle with rejection  too and i am not new to  it . I have been dumped by my friends and by many people  who told me i am worthless or good for nothing . Everyone in their life experiences rejection .                   Social rej...